This is Me. Hate it or Love it!

People always compliment me on how confident I am.  Or at least they think they are complementing me.  It goes like this: "Ohh u wearing that for a big girl!" or "You so confident to be a big girl." or "Girl u put those little girls to shame." So because I'm fat I'm supposed to be self conscious, sad, hide away in the closet?  Hater Please!!!!  The truth is big, medium or itty bitty, you better love yourself. No one is perfect.  Stop looking at the magazines trying to be America's Next Top Model.  Those are some of the most unhealthy women in the world.  Embrace who you are. I can't pass a mirror without looking at myself and smiling.  Why? because

 I LOVE SHEQUITA LEANN DANIELS!

Now I'm not gonna lie.  It took me a while to embrace the essence of who I am.  So what did I do?  I faked it.  Honey I would walk around with my head so far up my nose could tickle the bottom of Jesus' feet.  I would cut my eyes at anybody who looked at me side ways & they wouldn't dare say anything to me.  I knew I loved to laugh so I would say the 1st thing to come to my mind & people would just die.  I also knew there would always be someone waiting to catch me slipping, catch me looking a mess and I refused to give anyone ammunition.  So I make sure when I step out the door I'm the definition of "Jump Judy."  Please when u looking good and smelling good it makes you feel good.    I faked it for so long hell I started believing it.  I'm not quit sure when it happened.  I believed I was in college at good JCC (Jarvis Christian College).  No one knew anything about me.  Hell  most folks thought I was from Houston (I have no idea why).  So of course people started forming their opinions based off what they saw.  They saw a diva so they thought was a diva.  So I figured hey, I may as well give the people what they want LMAO!  That's when I realized, I am the best thing since sliced bread.

So the moral to this meaningless banter is "So a man thinkith, so he is."  If u think u wack then you are wack.  If you think you baddest then you are the baddest.  Now if you wanna be the baddest you gotta walk  the walk.  Don't come looking fooly and think you gonna turn heads.  Yea you will get some looks but they won't be pretty.  Embrace yourself.  If you hate your belly, get rid of it.  If it just won't leave you alone, buy some spanx and call it a day.  Stop looking for someone to love u, encourage you, compliment you.  Be your own cheerleader.

FALL IN LOVE WITH YOU!